Safe sex during social distancing.

By Alice Little for the ASN Lifestyle magazine

Hello everyone. I'm Alice Little, a legal sex worker and educator, here to answer the most common question on everyone's mind: how can I have safe sex during social distancing? Well, I have a lot of tips to increase the safety factor and the hotness factor, no matter if you're in a couple, single or even in self-isolation.

Safety first.

The number one question on everyone's mind right now is how to have safe sex during a pandemic. Fortunately, there are many ways to do this if you're willing to get creative and try something new. But before we start with how to navigate sex during social distancing, we need to talk about risk and responsibility.

The best information we currently have about COVID-19 is that it is not safe to be within two metres of another person. If you live with your partner(s), you may decide to continue having sex with them, because who wants to abstain along with self-isolation during this strange and historic period? Keep in mind that if you are not practising social distancing, you are putting yourself at risk of the virus. Even with masks, condoms and other barriers to interaction, the virus is malignant. Scientists have found persistent traces of the coronavirus lasting from a few hours to a few days (1), depending on the environment and type of surface. That means that sharing furniture could mean sharing the coronavirus as well. So, engaging in any form of face-to-face sex opens you up to a small risk of contracting the virus.

If you are a swinger or have other open relationships with more than one partner, you will need to make more than one record. The wider your circle, the greater the risk of contracting coronavirus, although if everyone practices social distancing, the risk is still relatively low. Decide how to proceed based on your medical history, risk tolerance and your partners' comments.

The sad news is that currently, there is no foolproof way to guarantee that face-to-face sex and skin-to-skin contact is safe - that's the latest of the bad news. The good news is that fun options for secluded sex abound.

Creating sexual closeness during the pandemic.

If you don't live with your partners and they are forced to separate at the moment, this is your chance to try some new and creative sexual options - consider your natural talents before deciding which one suits you. If you're a regular reader, you might enjoy sexting, if you're a wardrobe exhibitionist, you might want to try having sex on camera.

How to start sexting.

If you've never had the chance to become an expert sexter, now's your chance to practice. Ask your partner if he or she is okay with receiving explicit messages and then venting all those pent-up sexual energies that have been weighing you down. If he or she is nervous or uncomfortable, that's okay - he or she may not know what kind of sexual messages you like to send or receive until they do a test run. Re-read your favourite sex chapters in books, so you get a taste of the nuance and descriptions you like - if you love open and direct sexuality, you may want to get straight to the point, if you prefer the metaphorical and discreet sex scenes of classic literature, that's an option too - give your partner hints so you don't accidentally get discouraged in the process. Most importantly: take your time, if your work and schedule allow it, spend the whole day so that no one is under pressure and every text is carefully thought out.

How to try sex on video.

Now is the perfect opportunity to turn on the camera, choose a webcam setup you trust. If you don't already own one, some are available on Amazon for little money, even for less than $ 20. However, it may be worth investing your money in buying something of better video quality, especially if it will be used primarily for sexual purposes. Make sure you also have a microphone, as sound is a key component of the whole experience. Then, when you have plenty of time to explore sex on camera together, make an appointment.

Some people feel self-conscious on camera, or are simply shy, and these feelings can be heightened during video sex. Whatever you do, don't go into "acting mode", where your focus is on trying to be sexy rather than trying to connect. When you're acting, you're not experiencing, and that's less sexy for those involved. Sometimes it's helpful to mention that you're feeling nervous because your partner might be nervous too. But at least you won't have the added pressure of trying not to act nervous while trying to enjoy video sex.

Don't worry about creating the perfect camera angle to look sexy in every scene, rather imagine yourself as an exhibitionist who is finally making his debut, take some time before the date to do what you need to do to get in the mood. Light candles, read something erotic, have a glass of champagne or wear an outfit that makes you feel sexier.

When the time comes again, don't feel the need to be someone else. If you feel uncomfortable talking dirtier than usual, simply describe what you are feeling, or tell your partner what you have been fantasising about doing to him or her in his or her absence. One of you could slowly undress and you can show the other a detailed masturbation session.

Trying out sex toys together.

Finally, if you can afford it, there is no better time to invest in teledildonics (2). Teledildonics sex toys use technology to transmit sensations between two sex toys. It can make the sex you have in the city (or country!) feel practically real. If you don't have a partner, some of the toys can be synchronised with pornography for an incredible solo experience.

Tips for conscious masturbation during the pandemic

Those without a partner may need something a little extra during social distancing. Isolation is complicated, spending extra time trying new masturbation techniques or finding a connection is vital for their mental health.

If you feel lonely, get in touch with some webcam artists (cam girls, for example) online. Brothels are closed for now, but that doesn't mean that in the meantime, you can't support other sex workers! Webcam performers are amazing at creating a fun and personalised experience for you.

Or try moving forward during masturbation. The limit is when you get close to the edge of orgasm and then take a short break - not only can it help improve your control of orgasm, but it can also improve the quality of orgasm!

And finally, indulge in sexual self-care. Try different forms of pornography, such as audio pornography or erotica, whatever you find interesting and haven't tried yet. Don't forget to take care of your pelvic floor, a firm pelvic floor can improve your sexual health and increase the intensity of your orgasms. No matter your gender identity, Kegel exercises are good for everyone! Try sensual stretching or self-massage and alternate the rhythms and types of contact you use during masturbation. You finally have time to learn something new about yourself, so use it to your advantage.

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References

New coronavirus stable for hours on surfaces" 1.
https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/new-coronavirus-stable-hours-surfaces

2. "Three innovations in sexual technology for people with penises".
https://futureofsex.net/sex-tech/3-sex-tech-innovations-for-people-with-penises/

Upgrade your sex life with some sensual stretches".
https://thealicelittle.com/advice/level-up-your-sex-life-with-some-sensual-stretching/

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